Tinder is probably the most efficient way to meet someone today. The reason for that is that it allows you to approach virtually hundreds of people in one single day. It is mathematical. The more you attempt to meet girls, more you increase your chances of succeeding at finding a girl. Furthermore, it is mainly based on the appearance. Indeed, if the girl matches you on Tinder, it means she’s interested. That’s probably the most powerful feature of Tinder actually. It is targeted because the girls who match you on Tinder, and speak to you, like you physically at least and, therefore, are interested. Lastly, it allows you to meet girls located near you. Indeed, it is a very important factor to girls. The girls always want to meet someone who lives near them so they can expect to have a serious relationship because of the fact that distance will never be an issue if everything is going well. This will significantly increase your chances of succeeding in meeting a girl and it also allows you to save time and money as well. Indeed, you can start the process of meeting and discovering a girl through the application from your bed, without the need of going to the club, the bar, and so on. Regardless, there are 5 mistakes you should avoid when using Tinder. I will set them out in the next issue of newsletter.
Mistake #1: Not putting at least three appropriate pictures of yourself. As I said earlier, Tinder is based on the appearance so you have to make sure to pick the best three pictures of yourself. The first picture is very important. You need to put a picture so we can see both your face and chest. Yes, the girls want to see your face but also your chest so she can see your muscles. I am not saying that you need to have a lot of muscles but we all know that being in a good shape helps. The aim of this first picture is to get the girl’s attention and the best way to do it is the beauty or the muscles that emphasize the sexual desire, which is the first attraction the girls can have straight away by looking at your first picture. Then, you can add another picture of when you are with some friends or family members on holidays. The aim of that picture is to show to the girls that you have a good social life. It is very important for the girls to get this. Indeed, it means that you are like a normal person, you are happy, you are travelling, and you are enjoying the life. It also means that you are friendly indirectly. This will bring confidence to the girls. Lastly, you can choose another picture where we can see all of you. The aim of that picture will be to confirm that you are in a good shape. Furthermore, the girls pay attention to the height so they would be able to figure out your height on that picture.
Mistake #2: Not using Tinder while overseas. A lot of girls like people who come from abroad because it is different. The difference leads to curiosity and I would say that it is the human nature to be curious. Indeed, I have used Tinder in different countries and I have been surprised by how well it works in some countries, especially in the Netherlands. Indeed, in some countries, like the Netherlands, the population is very concentrated because it is a small country. As the result, you have a lot of girls in a relative small area. Once again, it is mathematical. The more you attempt to meet girls, more you increase your chances of finding a girl. The same conditions can happen in the big cities everywhere in the world.
Mistake #3: Not keeping your introduction simple. Sometimes, I have seen people writing a book to introduce themselves. I mean, you don’t want to do this. It is boring. The girls don’t want to spend an hour reading your introduction. Furthermore, if you say everything about yourself, what else are you going to talk about with the girl? Try to be simple as much as possible. Two-line introduction is enough. Depending on the situation, if you are in your hometown, you can say something like: “Hello, my name is XXX, I am looking for someone who can light up my days” That’s it. You don’t need to write a book. If you are overseas, for instance, you can say something like: “Hello, my name is XXX. I just got a job here. I would like to discover this new country through meeting new people, which is the best way for me to understand the culture of the country. Hopefully, this person will make me love this new country” That’s it. You have to keep in mind that the girls who match you on Tinder are interested physically first, so no matter your introduction, she matches you because she is attracted to you physically.
Mistake #4: Not asking for her phone number and a meeting in a relative short period of time. Indeed, when starting the conversation with the girl, don’t wait too long to ask her to give you her mobile to continue the conversation through WhatsApp, which is more private, or to go for a drink. A lot of girls use Tinder to play the seduction game but when it is about time to meet this kind of girl, they just disappear. It happened to me quite often. You don’t want to waste your time speaking to a girl you will never meet. Plus, asking if she can give you her mobile phone or meet you for a drink are the best way to see if she is motivated. If she says no, you might not want to continue speaking to her because there is a great chance that she is not enough motivated and you will be wasting your time. If she says yes, it sounds good because the girls would not make that effort to see you if she doesn’t think that it could go further.
Mistake #5: Not speaking to the girl like normal. I know that some guys want to impress girls using a specific way of speaking. The girls pay attention about the way you speak. It is always a good practice to use a good language. It shows the girls that you are a cultured person and thus a smart person in a sense. However, you don’t need to do too much by using words that you don’t usually use in the normal life. Try to keep it as simple as possible. Try to be natural rather than going straight away to the point. Indeed, once again, bear in mind that she matched you, which means that she likes you. Therefore, you have her attention already and don’t need to impress her anymore. Just ask simple questions, allowing you to get more information about her and feel how it goes. Then, when you think that it is the right time, you can kindly ask for her mobile phone or to meet her for a drink. The best meetings I had on Tinder, everything happened in the same week. Basically, the girl matched me and I met her in the same week. Once again, if the girl is very motivated, you are going to meet her in a very short period of time and there will be no need to force that meeting. Everything will happen smoothly.
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